one is the loneliest number

I know (and I'm sure that others would be more than happy to inform me) that I have not been waiting that long.... but I'm tired of waiting. I want to know who the human love of my life is supposed to be. I want to know who my man, my husband is. With every interaction or situation with members of the opposite sex it becomes increasingly clear that I have no freaking idea as to what I actually need in a mate. There's a certain type of guy I have an affinity for. He's a nice looking, yet not too flashy guy who's an intelligent thinker, nice smile, clean way of dressing with personal artistic flair, but not forced, not over the top... he's just him and comfortable being that, no more or no less. He's sensitive to those around him, yet not personally influenced by the thoughts of others as they pertain to him. He digs the natural hair and is comfortable with me being just that, me.... no bells no whistles. The things I say amuse him and he laughs. He keeps me smiling effortlessly. To be with him is not settlement, but the truth. Could there be ANY one else for me? The definite answer, no. He's God's intended.